Father's Day 2023

This year's Father's Day is filled with joy and sadness. My 88-year old dad is slowing declining. The hospice nurse calls it "actively dying." My mom and sister are taking turns being by his bedside. I'm glad I was able to visit him in May.

When my mom or sister tell me about what is going on each day, I sometimes wish I didn't have the EMT training I have. I recognize what is happening and know what is coming. I sometimes can add clarity to what the nurse is telling them. I sometimes have to keep my comments to myself because they will be too upsetting for my mom and sister.

My dad has had a long life filled with so many things I will never know about. He's shared so many stories over his lifetime. I have so many memories of our family vacations and things families do in their day-to-day lives that were trivial at the time but now take on a melancholy air. 

I remember little things. I remember big things. Unfortunately, I don't remember every thing. As my dad's time to transition draws nearer, I spend lots of time meditating. I also program my dreams so I can visit him while I'm sleeping.

I know there are people who have already lost a dad, a mom, a sibling, a spouse, or other loved one. My prayers go out to anyone who is hurting today. Please be kind to yourself and others. 

We really don't know what battles or challenges someone is facing. 

Sheila

  

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